Monday, 26 December 2016

The best women !

 قَالَ : قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : " خَيْرُ النِّسَاءِ إِذَا نَظَرْتَ إِلَيْهَا سَرَّتْكَ وَإِذَا أَمَرْتَهَا أَطَاعَتْكَ ، وَإِذَا غِبْتَ عَنْهَا حَفِظَتْكَ فِي مَالِكَ وَنَفْسِهَا " .
 قَالَ : ثُمَّ تَلا هَذِهِ الآيَةَ : الرِّجَالُ قَوَّامُونَ عَلَى النِّسَاءِ سورة النساء آية 34

Summary : 

The best of Women : 
1- If you look at her you become happy (delighted)
2- If you order her , she obeys you
3- If you are absent from her, she protects your wealth & her self (her private parts) 

رواه الإمام أحمد عن عبد الرحمن بن عوف قال: 
قال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم:
 إذا صلت المرأة خمسها وصامت شهرها وحفظت فرجها وأطاعت زوجها قيل لها ادخلي الجنة من أي أبواب الجنة شئت.
 ورواه ابن حبان في صحيحه عن أبي هريرة رضي الله عنه، والحديث صححه الألباني في الجامع الصغير.

لحديث: (إذا صلت المرأة خمسها) المكتوبات الخمس (وصامت شهرها) رمضان غير أيام الحيض إن كان (وحفظت) وفي رواية أحصنت (فرجها) عن الجماع المحرم والسحاق (وأطاعت زوجها) في غير معصية (دخلت) لم يقل تدخل إشارة إلى تحقق الدخول (الجنة) إن اجتنبت مع ذلك بقية الكبائر أو تابت توبة نصوحاً أو عفي عنها، والمراد مع السابقين الأولين وإلا فكل مسلم لا بد أن يدخل الجنة وإن دخل النار. انتهى.

✏️The Righteous Salafi Woman✏️

Shaikh Muhammad Ibn Umar Baazmool said:

It is not a condition that a righteous woman should know about  (all the different) groups and sects.

And one should not place the condition that she should echo (or calls to mind) (all) the statements of the Salaf and their opinions.

And it is not mandatory for her to know (the state of every individual), i.e. so-and-so and so-and-so have been disparaged and criticized.

And one should not place the condition that she should know (all) the Salafi scholars.

And one should not place the condition that she should know all that goes around.

And one should not place the condition that she should Fast on Ayyaam al-Beedh (13th, 14th, 15th of every lunar month) and every Mondays and Thursdays...

...or that she should  offer the night prayers every night. 

It is sufficient that she guards the 5 daily prayers...

...and Fasts in Ramadhaan...

...and guards herself (i.e. her chastity)...

...her husband...

...takes care of her house...

...her children.

And that her house is her kingdom, and that her husband is her Ameer, and that she is guardian over her children.

The Prophet ﷺ did not mention except that she should be kind to her children, and that she fulfills the rights of her husband and guards his wealth, and that she is obedient to her Lord.

Anything beyond this is exaggeration and exceeding the limits! What do you expect from the daughters of the Muslims?!

📑 Translated by Abu Sahl Barmem

 [Forwarded from]
☝️Good post mashaAllah !
Some brothers while seeking nikah search for women with attributes which maybe found or maynot even be found in sahabiyyat !
We should all remember the advice of imam ibn baz رحمه الله where he said once " ad-dunya maa feeha hur-'ayn !"
There is NO HUR UN_EYN in this Dunya !
May Allah give us all rightrous spouses & make us satisified & blissful with what He decreed on us.

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